tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-73523492660739742212011-12-15T02:43:57.787ZKeith L. Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11738950530305385864noreply@blogger.comBlogger51100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7352349266073974221.post-59822327845962012262009-02-09T21:09:00.002Z2009-02-09T21:13:07.355ZWhen you build a house, every brick counts.<br /><br />When you go on a journey, every mile counts.<br /><br />When you write a letter, every word counts.<br /><br />When you build your character, every thought counts.<br /><br />You are what you think.<br /><br />Love, purity, peace, wisdom, kindness, compassion, calmness... the list goes on.<br /><br />What other qualities would you like to have?<br /><br />Write them down...<br /><br />The more you think of these qualities, the more you will become them.<br /><br />Thoughts become things...<br /><br />So... make sure your thoughts are good ones!<br /><br />Create yourself as a wonderful person and fantastic relationships will follow!<br /><br />Have a great life!<br /><br />Keith L Jones<br />Relationship Coach<br />Helping You create A Great Relationship!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7352349266073974221-5982232784596201226?l=how-to-get-back-your-ex-klj-coaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>Keith L. Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11738950530305385864noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7352349266073974221.post-42165160000431954262009-02-05T12:27:00.003Z2009-02-05T12:37:38.651Z<span style="font-weight:bold;">Have you just recently broken up with your partner? Are you resigned to never getting back together with your ex... or are you hoping for reconciliation in the near future? Are you playing the victim? Or are you just feeling miserable and feel the situation is hopeless?</span><br /><br />Look, if that's how you're feeling, I have some great news for you!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">If you're prepared to put some work in to get your ex back, then there are plenty of options for you.</span> Look, we all deal with break-ups in different ways, but separation doesn't mean you can't ever get back together with your ex!<br /><br />To be honest, <span style="font-weight:bold;">9 out of 10 times there's no reason why you can't get your ex back after a break-up</span>, providing you know what steps are necessary.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">The first step to getting your ex back</span> is to determine what caused the break up. Even though you can't go back to the past, and you can't change what happened, you can learn from the mistakes that were made and then learn and grow from the experiences. The secret is being able to do that with your ex. The secret is getting to a situation where you can talk and discuss things in a cool and calm way.<br /><br />OK, let's look at why your break-up happened. Maybe your break-up occurred because of a single event, or maybe it happened because of behaviours or actions that your ex couldn't deal with anymore. The important thing here is to be honest with yourself. If you're not, you won't be able to find the reason for your break-up and there will be absolutely no chance of you getting back together... ever!<br /><br />Whatever it was that led to your break-up, <span style="font-weight:bold;">you must get the specifics figured out so you can deal with the situation</span> if it should ever come up again. You can get your ex back if you know how, but if you want to make it work on a long term basis... if you want a loving and fulfilling relationship... you need to understand what went wrong in the first place.<br /><br />OK, once you understand the reasons for the break-up, you can move onto the next step...<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Step two in the process</span> is to ensure that you're not coming off as desperate or needy. You must not come across as the victim who cannot cope. You may well feel like you can't live without your ex, but there's nothing to be gained by making that obvious. Instead, you must come across as being strong, and let your ex see that you're coping fine by yourself. If you let everyone around you see you're comfortable and happy, then you'll have a much better chance of getting back together with your ex.<br /><br />This isn't the same as trying to get back at your ex, or trying to make your ex jealous. In fact, those are probably some of the worst things you can possibly do, because it'll show your ex that he or she should simply move on because you already have. <br /><br />Whilst you want your ex to see you're doing ok, you don't want it to inspire them to completely move on! If your really do want to get back together, let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they'll feel inspired to get back together with you.<br /><br />If you start with these two simple steps, your chances of getting your ex back will be much higher, but equally as important, while you're working on why your break-up happened, it's absolutely vital you don't make matters worse...<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;"><a href="http://www.how-to-get-back-your-ex.com/articles-7-mistakes-you-should-not-make.php">Here are the top 7 mistakes you simply must not make... or you'll almost certainly lose your ex forever!</a></span><br /><br />Have a great day!<br /><br />Keith L Jones<br />Relationship Coach<br />Helping You create Great Relationships!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7352349266073974221-4216516000043195426?l=how-to-get-back-your-ex-klj-coaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>Keith L. Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11738950530305385864noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7352349266073974221.post-11485197057192044462009-02-03T12:48:00.000Z2009-02-03T12:49:46.155Z<strong>Thoughts have great power</strong>, they're the seeds you plant in your mind.<br /><br />By holding onto a particular thought, you invest power in it.<br /><br /><strong>Positive thoughts give you energy and strength.</strong> <br /><br />Negative thoughts rob you of power and are a drain on your energy.<br /><br />You may find this hard to believe, but, by nature you're positive, we all are! <br /><br />Negativity is the result of many things...<br /><br />Limiting beliefs... some from your childhood...<br /><br />Society... we're bombarded by negative news, comments and thoughts... hundreds, if not thousands, of times each and every day...<br /><br />Friends, family and work colleagues... often inadvertently, by things they say or do... <br /><br />The list goes on...<br /><br />But one thing is certain...<br /><br /><strong>You can change if you want to.</strong> <br /><br />You can't control other people...<br /><br />You can't control situations...<br /><br />You can't control circumstances...<br /><br /><strong>But you can control what is going on inside you</strong>. <br /><br /><strong>You can control your thoughts.</strong><br /><br />It takes time to change. <br /><br />It takes time to transform those old patterns of thinking.<br /><br />But... be patient with yourself. <br /><br />It all starts with a thought... <br /><br /><strong>It all starts today!</strong><br /><br />If you'd like some help to change your thought patterns, <strong><a href="http://www.thoughtfortoday.org.uk" TARGET="_blank">click here</a></strong> to receive daily inspirational thoughts straight to your inbox. They're completely free, but they have the ability to change your life.<br /><br />Have a great day...<br /><br />Have a great life...<br /><br /><strong>Keith Jones<br />Life Improvement Coach</strong><br /><br />Have a great day!<br /><br />Keith L Jones<br />Relationship Coach<br />Helping You create A Great Relationship!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7352349266073974221-1148519705719204446?l=how-to-get-back-your-ex-klj-coaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>Keith L. Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11738950530305385864noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7352349266073974221.post-90071877920111587452009-01-29T19:56:00.001Z2009-01-29T19:58:02.830Z<span style="font-weight:bold;">"You must be the change you wish to see in the world... " <br /><span style="font-style:italic;">(Mahatma Gandhi)</span></span><br /><br />Often, when things aren't quite as we'd like them to be in our relationships, we look for our partner to change...<br /><br />In reality, we should look to change our own behaviour.<br /><br />See you next time.<br /><br />Have a great day!<br /><br />Keith L Jones<br />Relationship Coach<br />Helping You create A Great Relationship!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7352349266073974221-9007187792011158745?l=how-to-get-back-your-ex-klj-coaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>Keith L. Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11738950530305385864noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7352349266073974221.post-28824872731392011902008-08-25T14:52:00.002+01:002008-08-25T15:48:16.292+01:00<a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.how-to-get-back-your-ex.com/">Home</a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />Welcome to the "How To Get Back Your Ex" Blog!</span><br /><br />If you've lost your ex and want to get back together... or if you want to get your life back on track after a breakup, you've come to the right place!<br /><br />I'll be adding posts giving you help and advice on what to do... and what not to do... if you want to get back your ex and I'll also be giving you some sound advice in how to build a more fulfilling, loving, caring relationship when you get back together... so you won't be like thousands of other couples and go through the heartbreaking cycle of breaking up and getting back together and breaking up... and so on!<br /><br />OK, look out for my next post... coming very soon!<br /><br />Have a great day.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Keith L. Jones</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Life Improvement Coach</span><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Helping You Create An Incredible Relationship</span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7352349266073974221-2882487273139201190?l=how-to-get-back-your-ex-klj-coaching.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>Keith L. Joneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11738950530305385864noreply@blogger.com0